We are grown women and we are done playing by everyone else’s rules. This is our life and we’re going to live it exactly how we want to. Life is too short for people-pleasing, staying quiet, or caring about all the things that don’t really matter. We are powerful ladies who don’t need to stick to your standards.
These are 9 things that a grown woman no longer cares about:
1. What She Wears
The clothes that she wears are her own business. She doesn’t care about fashion trends or wearing what everyone else does. She wears what’s comfortable for her and what suits her style.
2. What Other People Have to Say About Her
If other people think badly about her, that’s their problem. She doesn’t have time for childish gossiping or worrying about other people’s opinions. It’s like Taylor Swift say, “haters gonna hate.”
3. What People Think About Her Love Life
Yes, she has a love life. No, she doesn’t care what you think about it. It’s her business. She’s an adult and she can make these decisions for herself.
4. Being Polite to People Who Don’t Deserve It
She never wastes her energy on rude or disrespectful people. When these kinds of people come at her, she just ignores them and moves on with her life. Dealing with the stress of rude people is not worth her time or effort.
5. Having the “Perfect” Body
Let’s say it, right here, right now – there is no such thing as the perfect body. A powerful, mature woman knows that. She doesn’t strive to look like what society tells her to. All she wants to do is feel comfortable in her own skin, whatever that may look like for her.
6. Fitting In
This is not high school; she doesn’t need to make everyone like her. There’s no reason that she should conform to society’s standards just to fit in. If people like her for who she is, that’s great. If they don’t, then they can get out of her life.
7. Having the Trendiest Items
She’s not interested in buying the latest pair of Louis Vuitton heels just so that she can flaunt them. If she likes them, then she’ll buy them, but she won’t get them just because they’re designer.
8. What Her Ex is Doing
Her ex is out of her life and he can stay there. She doesn’t care what they’re doing, where they are, or who they’re with. That relationship ended and she’s keeping it in the past where it belongs.
9. Not Caring
Above all, a mature woman does not care about not caring. She won’t apologize for who she is to anyone. The only things she cares about are the things that really matter, and she’s not going to change that.
Life is way too short to worry about pointless things. Learning not to care about them is an art that every grown woman can learn with enough effort. Only spend your energy on the things that really matter to you.
